Sometimes, we get the correct sexual information which can make us
really good in the bedroom, but most times, we fall for myths that are
only ruining our sex life.
We all learn about sex through a bunch of different sources. Sometimes, we get the correct information which can make us really good in the bedroom, but most times, we fall for myths that are only ruining our sex life.
Here are three sex myths you might be believing that is making you terrible in bed.
Marriage/commitment ruins sex
Most
people are of the belief that getting married automatically ruins your
sex life. Sure, a lot of people struggle with monogamy, but giving up on
married sex will only end up hurting you. In fact, studies have shown
that married couples have more sex than single people do. Also, being
married means you can build sexual trust with one person, which can make
sex more intimate.
How it affects your sex life
If
you go into marriage or a long-term committed relationship believing
that sex will be bad, then it will. You will find yourself hesitating to
try new things or pleasing your partner. In the long run, your partner
will fell undesired and sexually frustrated, making him/her believe you
are not that good in bed.
Men cannot be monogamous, but women naturally can
Traditional
theory has proclaimed that men are more likely to cheat than women.
Also that men have more desire to step out on their relationship; this
is not true. New studies have shown that men and women have the same
rate of cheating tendencies. Another study shows that infidelity is
related to power as opposed to gender. This means that as women acquire
more power and confidence at work, they become likely as men to cheat.
Most have speculated that women remained faithful in the past because
they completely depend on their men to support them.
How it affects your sex life
As
a man, choosing to believe that cheating is natural and being
unfaithful will ruin whatever sexual connection you have with your
partner. No woman will completely give herself sexually to a man who has
betrayed her. Also, if you believe that all a woman wants is commitment
or marriage, you are less likely to focus on her sexual needs.
Men are visual creatures, women are not
Most
people believe that men are moved by what they see while women respond
to what they hear. This is not a hundred percent true. Just as men also
like to hear great things about themselves, women are also attracted to
what they see.
How it affects your sex life
Men
who hold this belief usually assume that taking care of their body is
of no importance to their partners. The truth is, taking care of
yourself helps you build confidence and there is nothing more confident
than a sexy, fit man in the bedroom. It increases her level of
attraction to you, thus, making it more likely that she will be sexually
satisfied by you.
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